Kate and I are going to write a letter to Shaohannah's Hope, an organization that helps couples with adoption. It was started with God's love and the desire of Steven Curtis Chapman and his wife, Mary Beth. I think this is where God is leading us right now. We don't have any clue where to start, so if any of you have information, I would be glad to read it.
If you also feel compelled to pray over my little private "procedure" ;) on the 10th, thank you in advance. It's the least I can do as a loving husband; even if it will hurt a little.
Today was "National See You at the Pole" day, and we were all out there this morning. It's just another way to say, "God is in control of everything down here."
I also want to ask for your prayers for a good friend of mine. He was my son's basketball coach last year. His 2-week-old son went to be with Jesus early this morning. I know this pain will be very tough, but I'm comforted in knowing that he is a Christian and knows exactly where his son is right now. I also firmly believe that little Chaz and my Gracie have already met. Gracie loved little babies, and I have no doubt that she is up there right now holding Chaz so very tight.
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I haven't left any comments on your blog until now, but I check it every day to see what's on your heart. You are such an inspiration to me to read your post. You are so full of wisdom and one can certainly tell you are in love with your family and the Lord.
Not many men have the qualities that you possess and it would be such a shame not to share those with more children. Although we have not heard from Katie, she sounds like a true jewel who also has alot more to offer children.
I believe God has a special place in his heart for those who adopt and he will see you through it all. I have an adopted grandson from Haiti and I wouldn't trade him for the world. As I've watched Haiti recently going through one hurricane after another this summer, I can only say I'm glad we rescued this precious little boy from those conditions.
I've watched several go through the adoption process, and all I can say is, "have lots of patience". You will learn to rely on God in a whole different way because you will have no control over any situation. At the end of the process, you will have a much deeper love and respect for our Creator than when you started. You will marvel at the opening of doors, the timing, and the child he has chosen just for you.
I'm praying for you as you make this decision and will be encouraging you from the sidelines to "go for it".....you both should have a house full of children to nurture.
I found you through the Chapman blog and while I didn't know them before their tragedy, I also didn't know you and what you have been through. I believe God is binding Christians together in a way that we can't see or even comprehend at this time, but it's for a purpose down the road. I thank him everyday for what he is doing through all of you who are sharing your losses with the world and letting us uphold you with prayers. I'm sure there are probably more people like me who read your blog but don't comment, so don't think you are writing in vain if you don't get any responses. I love your writings, especially when you talk about your students and your job.
Here is BIG HUGS for being so faithful and being the man God wants you to be.
Praying for you and "all" your needs daily!
Shoegirl from IN
I know that you have had so many offers of help on the SCC blog, but I am offering as well. My boys are both from South Korea. We have also walked my sister's family through the process of international adoption.
Shoegirl is right on when she says that you will learn so much through the process. My husband & I relaxed (as much as possible) through the paperwork and uncertainties. My sister & brother-in-law struggled more with the feelings of being out of control. I'm here to say, relaxing in blind trust is easier!
My best advice is this: find a Christian adoption agency that has years of experience. Cheapest is not always best! We used a Christian agency with over 50 yrs of experience and are so thankful that we had all of their expertise behind us!
My other advice is beware: adoption is addictive! We adopted the 1st time thinking it was a one-time deal. Four years later, we decided to trust God to provide a way for a 2nd. Stuart & I both say that if God wanted us to have a 3rd and gave us the choice to birth a child or to adopt, we would beg for adoption again. You will gain a new love and compassion and awareness for God's children everywhere.
Know that you will be in my prayers. If you want more specific information, let me know.
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